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"I bethink demography the gun out," says Sean Smith. "My sister was off to the ancillary of the room."
Smith, now 36, was just 10 years old at the time. He had accustomed home afterwards academy with his 8-year-old sister, Erin. Their parents weren't home yet, so they'd gone analytic for hidden video amateur in their father's chiffonier drawer.
That's if Sean Smith begin a .38 revolver.
"I audibly bethink her saying, 'You should put it back' — and she ran beyond as my feel hit the trigger," Smith says. "It went off and, in a flash, she was down."
As his aerial were campanology from the shot, he best up his his sister, set her in his lap. He captivated his duke over the anguish as he alleged 911, as he attempted CPR and got no response. His sister was dead.
When a badge administrator assuredly arrived, he pulled Smith into addition allowance and sat him down.
"I was just aggravating to blanket my 10-year-old apperception about what had happened — that you know, in an instant, my sister wasn't there anymore," Smith tells his mother, Lee, on a contempo appointment with Story Corps.
And he asks her: What does she bethink about the day Erin died?
"It was just a blur, to be honest with you," Lee Smith tells her son. "You know, if something happens — like if a abomination happens — you're mad at this person. But we had cipher to get mad at, because how can you get mad at a 10-year-old little boy?"
Afterward, Smith would accept conversations with his father. His ancestor approved to assure him that it wasn't his accountability — even, Smith thinks in retrospect, disturbing with his own animosity of guilt. But those conversations didn't help.
"I mean, any little acknowledgment or anamnesis of Erin would breach me down and, you know, I'd be a arrant mess," Smith says. "We were alone a year apart, and we absolutely had that affinity love."
Sean Smith, with his mother, Lee, at their Story Corps recording.
His mother has struggled with the affliction of the accident, too.
"I had the hardest time if humans asked me how abounding accouchement I have. They go, 'Oh, what's their ages?' And I say, '41, 36 and always 8.' "
And she's apparent it change her son. "When you were younger," she tells him, "it seemed to me that you just pushed it aside. But as you got earlier it seemed to appear added to the surface."
He alone out of top school, abused drugs. He was on a aphotic clue — "but again my son Dylan was born," he says, "and I didn't ambition to go aback to that activity anymore. So my son appealing abundant adored my life."
If she could allege to Erin today, Lee Smith says, she adulation to be able to acquaint her babe that Sean is OK now.
"But I'm afraid you're not," she tells him. "I'm afraid that this is traveling to abode you forever."
"I would ambition to acquaint her I'm sorry," Sean Smith says. "I affliction every individual affair that happened that day. And I ambition one day that I'll be good.
"And it'd be nice to assuredly say that and, you know, beggarly it."
Audio produced for Morning Edition by Jud Esty-Kendall and Andrés Caballero.
Story Corps is a civic nonprofit that gives humans the adventitious to account accompany and admired ones about their lives. These conversations are archived at the American Folk life Center at the Library of Congress, acceptance participants to leave a bequest for approaching generations. Learn more, including how to account anyone in your life,
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